Eudaimoniacs RTW Series: Leg 1 India (Tiruvannamalai) Day 2 to 20 – Thosai and Chai

So far we are getting used to the horrendous traffic and their general way of life. I think people in Singapore can learn more about riding and driving here in one day than wasting your money in our exorbitant driving centres. So far that we are here, we have yet to see any road accidents despite the massive chaos.

“The Red Saddhu” posing with his Thum-B

Unfortunately, we are still not accustomed to the ridiculous humidity, biting bugs, frequent and long electricity distruptions. We came from a ridiculous climate as well but Singapore’s torturous humidity and heat is heaven compared to this. Even with two fans blasting at maximum, we are still feeling the heat. So once the electricity disruption starts, the whole body sweats in 5 seconds. I swear I’m not exagerating. And when you sweat, you attract bugs which carve beautiful scars on your skin. Thank God they spared the face. A nice cycle of torture don’t you think?

On a positive note, we have become more thankful during our stay here. Observing the people around, we’ve come to conclude that Singaporeans are spoilt brats who take many things for granted. You just cannot fathom how old women help in physical labor building houses under the impossible heat, the young kids maneuvering motorbikes in the suicidal heat and makes you wonder how the poor and homeless survives here. I think you’ll be either hospitalized or dead in less than a month if you were to trade shoes with them. Again, I swear I’m not exaggerating.

The Faces of Tiruvannamalai

Below are pictures of the angels we met in Tiruvannamalai. Each one of these people had an exceptionally positive aura around them and you just feel so comfortable with them in an instant as if you have known them for years.

Shah, The Bald Nun

The bald woman is Shah. A retired teacher from a private school in Singapore (what are the chances?), she had enough of office politics, quitted her job and went to shuttle between Tiruvannmalai, Malacca and Singapore (of which Singapore is the shortest stay within the 3). Her quest for spiritual enhancement is awe-inspiring for you feel a strong sense of moderation and balance in her ways unlike most of the extreme foreigners here. We met her by ‘chance’ here in Tiru on the very first day and she became our tour guide for 10 days. She even negotiated for us to stay at her friend’s luxurious house for free.

Rupa, The Italian Mafia

The Italian woman is called Rupa. Her life story was full of twists and turns. Excellent enough to be a brilliant plot for a blockbuster movie, she is staying long term here in Tiruvannamalai as she feels that this is the place where her soul belongs. Disobeying her parents to lead the normal rat race life like the one we have in Singapore, her journey took her to Holland in which she married a Danish guy which did not end well, married another Danish guy which failed too before she had enough and decided to do an all-out travel in the whole of Asia.

During her journey, she experienced true love with a Japanese man and they travelled together for one year before deciding to tie the knot. The moment they left the registry of marriage, her Japanese husband changed 180 degrees due to listening to his father’s ‘wise’ advice,”A Japanese man should treat his girlfriend like a new car. Once you marry her, she is an old car so treat her like one if you are a man.”

Having her third and final divorce, she went around Asia until she landed in Indonesia where she felt at home. She stayed there for many years but soon got frustrated as her visa kept running out every 2 months. That was her catalyst to look for something more permanent, guiding her to India before she found home in the disguise of Tiruvannamalai.

Tanabal, The Santa Claus

Last but not least, our Santa Claus in Tiru is called Tannabal. A Malaysian Indian who migrated to Tiru 35 years ago due to the magnetic pull of the Holy Mount Arunachala, he set up an Internet Cafe. An extremely warm guy who’s energy level just permeates positively through your veins, he is one of those people whom you know could make any rainy day become sunny.

In all, I’ll summarize Tiruvannamalai as a crash course in acceptance, not having too much expectations and more importantly, to go with the flow. We find Tiru the perfect place to kickstart our world journey with these life lessons ingrained within us.

Next stop: Bangalore

Overlooking Arunachaleswara Temple from Mount Arunachala.

The revered Mount Arunachala. It takes 4 hours to hike all the way up to it’s peak.